we don’t need to be faced with death in order to appreciate and realize the value of life. in a non-ordinary way, solitary moments can lead to such realization. especially when the serenity and calmness become deafening. we are unable to hear the audible sounds of life’s true meaning. we have lost our senses because our life is mundane and seeing those people having the fun of their lives only makes us so insignificant and hopeless. it's as if we're doomed. we are left with two options, whether to remain in the corner, feeling sorry for ourselves or go on with our lives without giving a damn. oftentimes, the person to be blamed for living such a pathetic world is no less than ourself. we have imposed misery on our lives. we are aware that with such nuisance, we have become the culprit! those who may not be aware of this tend to point their fingers on somebody else. it depends whether you allow someone into your life---freeing that person from future finger pointing or you take full responsibility on whatever you do and whatever you feed your mind and heart with.